“Your coaching experience with me is a deep discovery into where SCIENCE meets the SOUL” - A perfect Mesh! Let’s go there together. - Tanya Wannemacher, Self Empowerment and Law of Attraction/Manifestation Coach
Let’s set out on a mission to explore the strange and new world of where your brain meets YOU……Captain Kirk said it best,…. “To boldly go where no man has gone before”
I believe YOU are your best source for your answers, for your healing and your happiness, and Mesh coaching is founded upon this principle.
Mesh Coaching stands for Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual Health,
although the h can also signify healing and happiness as those are the results you will experience when you say yes to yourself and decide to take the next step to become consciously devout to nourishing your self-command of your mental, emotional & spiritual health and well-being.
Mesh coaching works with human beings. The whole human being. That means that you have a body, a mind, emotions, behaviors, and a soul, a spiritual side. I believe that your breakthroughs into becoming who you want to be and what you want to accomplish is developed through a wHolistic approach, working with you in all of these areas, for a more impactful experience and true lasting transformation.
My style of coaching creates a shift in your person, not just a shift with the particular problem you come to me with. We unpack the external problem down to the internal narratives and blocks that keep you from discovering powerful soulutions on your own.
When a new client comes to me for coaching and says that they don’t feel therapy or coaching has worked for them, it’s because they feel like they are going in circles and its a merry-go-round of a new day, new problem and back to square one. My style of coaching is called Ontological Coaching, the study of your way of BEing. Your “beingness”. While we together address and find inspiring action steps to walk you to the other end of the issue at hand, we go beyond the problem, to your way of being through it, learning healthy thoughts and behaviors to self empower you in future struggles and triggers. We work together to reconstruct your relationship with struggle. We all have emotional attachment to our problems, so dealing solely with the problem and not the mindset that created it, leads to an endless chase to feel complete. In the end, I help my clients find their answers towards their immediate issue at hand, their way of doing, but even more critical, to evoke new awareness and insight that changes their way of being, a knowing beyond the knowledge. This will shape the whole person, not just the problem, in a way that changes everything. This sets them up with success for similar challenges in the future and the insight and skills learned are applicable to all areas of their life.
I use powerful questions to “vertically coach” (connection to your inner compass, your spirit, your being) deeper into what is keeping clients from moving forward in their “linear life”(your storyline, your body/mind, your personality, your human). Where the two crossover and meet is your sweetspot of living life with fullness and feeling whole. This is HOW you go from mess to mesh and learn your formula to DO life FROM your “mesh”. We develop your mesh quotient, or what I call your meshQ. Your YOU!
My company, mesh coaching, was thoughtfully created to address all of these aspects in mind. The acronym mesh for mental, emotional and spiritual health “weaves” beautifully into my inner knowing and philosophy on how to heal and transform from the inside out. We are human beings, we are not human doings. Your MESH becomes the fabric to which you are made up of, your being, and it gets weaved throughout all of your doings in your life and becomes the very foundation upon which you think, emote, behave, grow, connect, create, evolve.
You becoming you, the true and whole you that’s not missing anything except for your full awareness of this facet of yourself and the abilities that already exist within you. Its not a “user error”. There’s nothing wrong with the programs you’ve been running that are no longer working, no longer serving YOU. They got you this far! Its just time to upgrade the mindware to get to the next level.
There is a reason you are here right now reading this, perhaps an inner flame that’s been fanned and reignited. Perhaps you are sensing in yourself a deep longing, that when it bubbles up, your instinct has always been to push it down, but this time you are allowing your curiosity to explore just a little bit.
Perhaps you’ve never trusted in that inner voice, dismissed it as woowoo, hogwash, fairytale, convincing yourself that there’s no time for those feelings in the “real” world, or somehow not how YOUR life works, and so you went back to what you thought you “should” be doing….not fulfilling really, but comfortable. Comfortably numb.
Maybe something you’ve read on this site, or something someone has recently said to you, is reminding you of this nagging inner aching or urge that tells you that you were meant for more or better. Perhaps you are tired of making promises to yourself that you already know you won’t keep, so you’ve stopped trying. Or maybe you are tired of always putting yourself last.
Is it rising again? Are you wondering if you can “go there”, or are you once more going to choke it down and say you’re fine and find a believable reason that your brain is telling you to keep you from experiencing discomfort. How long have you been waiting to be happy…truly happy? What if it were possible for you to safely express that voice that stays quiet and has kept you playing small? What is the most important thing in the world to you? What will happen if you don’t speak up, step up or fulfill your vision for your life? If your main obstacle didn’t exist, what would your life look like right now? If you are still with me in reading this, something here has sparked a remembrance of who you are at your core, your essence, and who you are meant to be. If you were your greatest fullest expression of your deepest longing for yourself, what would you be doing that you keep putting off till someday? What would you be feeling if you were or got that thing? What’s the energy you would want to bring into what you do? Your brain is going to immediately chime in and tell you that indulging in answering these questions only makes you feel worse. After all, you may not have yet entertained doing what intrinsically feels right for you because explaining it out loud and acting upon the feeling requires you to feel that same rising fear of vulnerability to judgement, discomfort or past wounding.
Although painful, a wound provides an opportunity for new growth and stronger skin than before. And although seemingly a setback, struggles and obstacles are inevitable and provide us road signs on how to course correct. This is what Mesh does for you. It holds a space, a neutral safe void of sorts, to embrace your wounds, your struggles, all of the things that seemingly get you off course, and creates space for your healing, your potentiality, your comeback…and walks with you through your rEvolution, to the 2.0 version of you.
Mesh Coaching will help you find your way, opening new doors that were unseen before, awakening new growth that assures you are stronger, happier, fuller. We prepare you for the journey to get you from where you are now to where you want to be, and all of the road in between, and we set out side by side. What you learn through it becomes your natural way of being. You find your Jiminy Cricket to empower your decisions on your path so that they are rooted in what feels right for you, your own personal manifesto to live by, that needs no external validation. You reclaim trust in you and own your story confidently.
It is not something you attain, reach, or accomplish. Its a conscious choosing of how you want to show up. It doesn’t require the hustle to change who you are, or to change and control others. Rather, it asks that you be who you already are, fully, embracing it all, unapologetically, and trying on a new lens to shift how and what you see in yourself and in your circumstances.
Rumi says wounds are openings where the light enters you. They are encoded with new growth. In times of struggle, this is when we get to breathe and just be with what we are experiencing, letting the interlocking pieces in our life that already exist, do their job, and to trust in that, and to get out of our own way, out of our heads when in struggle, as to not cause suffering with how we try to speed up or resist it. The mesh openings are like portals to your soul where you breathe into yourself and invite yourself to let go….and to be healed…and then massively get to work on what you were meant to be and do here. Your vision. Your aspirations and dreams. Your gifts. Your purpose.
You matter, without a doubt. Let’s level up your mesh so that you can apply it to what matters to you.